tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post5796593272889347682..comments2023-04-06T08:38:19.504-05:00Comments on As Fast As My Baby Can: WastedKathleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14220592100816306178noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-41879033921463188482011-03-06T12:51:20.855-06:002011-03-06T12:51:20.855-06:00Man oh man you are (obviously) not alone. I'm...Man oh man you are (obviously) not alone. I'm with Chelle on the sucking-donkey-balls thing and with Cherm on the irony and twisted-ness of it all. It gets even worse with endo ovulation pain...Sooooo the opposite of sexy. :(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-76845572587570962772011-03-05T22:40:29.536-06:002011-03-05T22:40:29.536-06:00I'm with ya lady...you are DEFINITELY NOT alon...I'm with ya lady...you are DEFINITELY NOT alone in this! This IF B.S. sucks the joy out of a lot of things. What's most frustrating is it happens to suck the joy out of the VERY thing that would solve the problem. It's just so fricken twisted!!!<br /><br />Have that glass of wine or two or go stay at a fun hotel...maybe down in Mexico...:)<br /><br />Chalk this last month up to a time of healing...big hugs to you my friendChermhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05936954291111191011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-1191190224181494212011-03-05T09:56:34.975-06:002011-03-05T09:56:34.975-06:00I am so sorry and right there with you!!! It sucks...I am so sorry and right there with you!!! It sucks that sex loses it's luster over the years of TTC. IT becomes a task, no longer a fun-filled activity. I hate it, hate it, hate it, HATE IT!!<br /><br />Thinking about you and if Charlie Sheen can father children... so can our men!!! Right??Babystepshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15887687246851640547noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-78635864646728506422011-03-05T01:13:50.616-06:002011-03-05T01:13:50.616-06:00My brother's wedding is in December too. Blech...My brother's wedding is in December too. Blech, and I am too zapped about Lola's absence in it.<br /><br />I am glad you are taking the month off. IF treatments drain sanity completely. Time to restore it.<br /><br />I say, get drunk and have sex...that's how getting knocked up gets smoothened. The spermies loosen up, the egg slips to the fallopian tube, and the uterus is too sozzled to revolt. Pregnant!..alhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679149270839974470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-63693858465167952012011-03-04T22:38:53.994-06:002011-03-04T22:38:53.994-06:00You are definitely not alone in that department. ...You are definitely not alone in that department. IF does take over your life in every aspect...even the bedroom. That is supposed to be a 'safe zone' but yet it too gets affected negatively. It becomes a job and one that is associated with failure making you want to engage less and less which SUCKS!!! I am so sorry you are going through that. If it helps, we are being affected by the same thing right now :(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-52364961205122749912011-03-04T17:27:19.861-06:002011-03-04T17:27:19.861-06:00I'm so sorry...and I hear ya. My hubby remind...I'm so sorry...and I hear ya. My hubby reminded me the other day of some random place we did the deed because it was "that time" and he was insinuating maybe we should try that again. I was like, "Ha! What a waste that was!" because as usual, it didn't work. Of course he didn't appreciate my comment either. It's so hard when sex feels like your job and you either can't stand it at that time or you muddle through and then it ruins the good times. ugh...so sorry hon.Infertile Farmerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14306866429216088810noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-24707296966879460872011-03-04T14:40:28.804-06:002011-03-04T14:40:28.804-06:00I am totally right there with you about the anger ...I am totally right there with you about the anger of having to schedule your life around your fertility. I can't plan business trips or even vacations where my husband doesn't go without first consulting my fertility tracker. It pisses me right off. And try explaining to your boss you can't go on a business trip when he wants you to because that is your fertile window!<br /><br />I hate that it takes out the spontenaiety too. I try so hard to not make it feel like a chore to my husband, but he can be so stubborn. Today I told him, "Guess what babe? My fertility monitor says we get to be frisky this weekend!" I'm trying to put the fun back in it. God knows I'm trying. He also knows we have had months in the past where we do our think and I cry afterward because there was no passion. It was a chore. That's the worst.<br /><br />It all just freaking sucks big ass donkey balls.<br /><br />Go punch a fertile. Maybe it will help you feel better. At the very least, I hope the mental image gives you a giggle.Chellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06387359193986785194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-34270565536005702852011-03-04T12:01:00.056-06:002011-03-04T12:01:00.056-06:00You are not alone. Lately I have associated sex w...You are not alone. Lately I have associated sex with failure. It is hard not to feel those emotions even when you simply want to enjoy sex as sex. Maybe you really needed this month off. It is confusing to think that at certain times we are not ready for sex, but maybe after a really stressful and disappointing cycle we really aren't ready yet.jill's infertility documenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08289851786334836156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-9309877261024959952011-03-04T10:30:46.279-06:002011-03-04T10:30:46.279-06:00Gosh, I could have written this post... come to th...Gosh, I could have written this post... come to think of it, I probably did!Jemhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10480192191711301637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-35040235657764113902011-03-04T10:28:26.511-06:002011-03-04T10:28:26.511-06:00So sorry...It is amazing how timed intercourse rob...So sorry...It is amazing how timed intercourse robs sex of all its fun and all its freaking sexiness. We've tried the candles, massage, porn, everything, but sometimes you just don't want it and HAVING to do it makes you feel angry, annoyed and even more unsexy.Kerrikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13206990230707526604noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-17614192975931811172011-03-04T08:12:16.611-06:002011-03-04T08:12:16.611-06:00UGH! So sorry hun. Eff infertility!!!!! Hugs.UGH! So sorry hun. Eff infertility!!!!! Hugs.LisaBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08662932656659080958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-19594025310728394002011-03-04T07:40:46.550-06:002011-03-04T07:40:46.550-06:00If this makes you feel better...in Dec before our ...If this makes you feel better...in Dec before our last IVF cycle...we were desperately doing a "natural" cycle. Had x for 7 days in a row. I kept thinking I was going to ovulate. Finally, on the 8th day, I got a REALLY clear ovulation predictor kit + and when we went to have x that night...hubby couldn't. We spent two hours trying...EVERYTHING. It never worked. We figured we would try the next morning. Failure again. And the next night. Failure. It was awful. I was so angry to feel like sex was a chore and I hated it. This month we decided that we would just do the natural IUI so that we wouldn't have to deal with the sex fights again. I'm sorry. You are not alone though, you are not alone.RunningMamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16269598643448280554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-17556698248854604642011-03-03T19:21:52.993-06:002011-03-03T19:21:52.993-06:00So sorry you are feeling so low. :-( Thinking of...So sorry you are feeling so low. :-( Thinking of you.Jen Has A Penhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01985462114936261199noreply@blogger.com