tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post5729087302218509593..comments2023-04-06T08:38:19.504-05:00Comments on As Fast As My Baby Can: Close but No CigarKathleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14220592100816306178noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-22245541455635425662010-11-14T18:39:06.774-06:002010-11-14T18:39:06.774-06:00Hi K, I'm here for you if you need anything. I...Hi K, I'm here for you if you need anything. I love you and B so much. You are always in my thoughts. xoxoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-41438195826903014352010-11-06T06:26:25.717-05:002010-11-06T06:26:25.717-05:00Dear Kathleen - my thoughts and prayers are with y...Dear Kathleen - my thoughts and prayers are with you. I am so sorry. <br />best wishes<br />HeatherHeatherhttp://surviveandthrive.thefertilityblogs.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-79510658628413866912010-11-05T11:18:27.958-05:002010-11-05T11:18:27.958-05:00Just catching up on this, and I am so very sorry t...Just catching up on this, and I am so very sorry to hear this news. It sounds like you are taking good care of yourself however. Many hugs.Glass Case of Emotionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05955456197879910244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-73113151814470310312010-11-05T11:01:39.539-05:002010-11-05T11:01:39.539-05:00Kathleen - I secretly follow your blog, and I have...Kathleen - I secretly follow your blog, and I have been closely watching your journey. I am sorry ... I will continue to pray that your dreams and wishes come true. Hang in there and know that you arre always in my prayers.<br /><br />LisaMommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12903118776894299738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-59493788655044224642010-11-05T10:02:14.372-05:002010-11-05T10:02:14.372-05:00I am only going to feel hopeful for you. You will...I am only going to feel hopeful for you. You will be parents !!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-57881154289588569792010-11-04T16:18:44.483-05:002010-11-04T16:18:44.483-05:00Dear Kathleen, I am so sorry for your loss. You an...Dear Kathleen, I am so sorry for your loss. You and your husband are in my thoughts and prayers. Remember: you will be parents. It might be different than you thought it would be, but you will be parents.<br /><br /> Your story sounds unfortunately so familiar. I have also endometriosis and had two chemical pregnancies in the past. <br /><br />Currently we are in the 2ww for IVF#4... But in 2008 we had enough of the emotional rollercoaster and and adopted a little girl which is the joy of our lives.<br /><br />Sending you lots of hugs!Yokahttp://www.roadtoadopt.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-92075273688963188062010-11-04T09:59:03.161-05:002010-11-04T09:59:03.161-05:00I am sorry for your losses. I am sitting her with ...I am sorry for your losses. I am sitting her with you as you mourn.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-80800152760992289052010-11-04T07:51:54.516-05:002010-11-04T07:51:54.516-05:00So sorry for your loss. Glad you are taking the t...So sorry for your loss. Glad you are taking the time to grieve and heal...sending good thoughts your way.Still A Guest Roomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14704376303400886837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-85969221917787118902010-11-03T21:42:56.317-05:002010-11-03T21:42:56.317-05:00The strength and love you and B have WILL get you ...The strength and love you and B have WILL get you through this and you WILL be parents somehow....Big HUGS to you and be good to yourself...xoxoChermhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05936954291111191011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-53031833783934657452010-11-03T21:32:19.054-05:002010-11-03T21:32:19.054-05:00So sorry that your happiness was ripped away so qu...So sorry that your happiness was ripped away so quickly. You've fought so hard - it's so unfair. ((Hugs))Anniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12316978989809741699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-65015008584601683542010-11-03T20:30:48.845-05:002010-11-03T20:30:48.845-05:00I am so very sorry. Chemical pregnancies are so a...I am so very sorry. Chemical pregnancies are so awful, because you get just a GLIMPSE of that happiness and then it's ripped away. And you're left feeling as if you can't really mourn for something that was barely there, and yet it was SO there.<br /><br />I am glad that your husband is such a strong source of support for you. And your attitude is inspiring. I do agree - you'll get there. But the road is so difficult and I will be thinking of you along the way.Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08961948894847619115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-81529280101117412092010-11-03T18:17:44.395-05:002010-11-03T18:17:44.395-05:00oh no. i'm so sorry. hugs.oh no. i'm so sorry. hugs.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-7239383933846405822010-11-03T14:06:55.206-05:002010-11-03T14:06:55.206-05:00I love that B takes such wonderful care of you. A...I love that B takes such wonderful care of you. And I love that you proclaimed your KNOWING that you two will be parents.....I'm officially letting the lump in my throat be free. :'-( xoxoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-30383061908393383382010-11-03T09:49:09.558-05:002010-11-03T09:49:09.558-05:00I'm so sorry this didn't work. I find tha...I'm so sorry this didn't work. I find that it takes about 6 weeks to mourn a loss. The first two weeks are brutal. Just be gentle with yourself and treat yourself to some things. A manicure. A dress. Some boots. Something. We tend to deny ourselves things when going through this process...but in the grand scheme of things, it's just money and time. <br /><br />But, I think this is a really *good* sign. You CAN get pregnant. Your little 4-cell low chance of success embryos STUCK for a little while. That's GOOD news. More information. This is all just one big painful science experiment!!<br /><br />Hugs!RunningMamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16269598643448280554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-85651461174807628972010-11-03T07:41:01.535-05:002010-11-03T07:41:01.535-05:00UGH!!!!! I am SO SO sorry. I was really hoping t...UGH!!!!! I am SO SO sorry. I was really hoping this was IT! Take the time to grieve this loss. You have been through some serious ups and downs this cycle, which is just exhausting and i am sure you are emotionally drained. Sometimes the closer you get, the harder it is (at least it was for me). You are that much closer and can FEEL it working and then have it so harshly ripped away. it is just so incredibly cruel and unfair. Your strength, poise and perspective is just incredible and I am so glad you have such a great relationship with B. He sounds amazing! Will be thinking of you. Hugs!Infertile Farmerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14306866429216088810noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-73109251043853405332010-11-03T07:30:36.235-05:002010-11-03T07:30:36.235-05:00Oh no, I am so very sorry. This is heartbreaking ...Oh no, I am so very sorry. This is heartbreaking and I know that this cycle has been a major rollercoaster. <br />I am so glad that you and your husband have each other as you continue to grieve this loss.<br />thinking of you and sending love your way.cdghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13174907373129154516noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-20153084755660582502010-11-03T07:26:57.709-05:002010-11-03T07:26:57.709-05:00I'm so sorry, Kathleen. Despite the fact that...I'm so sorry, Kathleen. Despite the fact that I only stayed with you guys for a couple days, it was obvious that you both are stronger then your fears and stronger then your sadness. You will get through this, I know you will. But until then, you and B will be in my thoughts.Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17420271158215786627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-68870751274503154862010-11-03T07:08:01.733-05:002010-11-03T07:08:01.733-05:00I am so sorry ((((hugs)))).
I wish I could say so...I am so sorry ((((hugs)))).<br /><br />I wish I could say something to take your pain away.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12659495120851692141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-40698476048332746482010-11-03T06:49:40.563-05:002010-11-03T06:49:40.563-05:00Aaaauuugghhhhh! Is there any silver-lining in the ...Aaaauuugghhhhh! Is there any silver-lining in the fact that those 4 cell fighters got on the radar screen. Probably not! I am just so sad for you and I understand this feeling of defeat and frustration. I'm here if you need to chat. <br /><br />When you are ready for next steps, let's connect - I have some ideas~<br /><br />xoxoxoxoBabystepshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15887687246851640547noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-69760132812537358212010-11-03T01:37:25.980-05:002010-11-03T01:37:25.980-05:00(((BIG HUG))) I'm so sorry hon, thinking of yo...(((BIG HUG))) I'm so sorry hon, thinking of you and DH at this time :-(Haideehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17388186444189056961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3984035882609610303.post-78016975662260091402010-11-02T22:45:08.890-05:002010-11-02T22:45:08.890-05:00I am so sorry. Crawl into a comforting place, clo...I am so sorry. Crawl into a comforting place, close to B. My thoughts are with you both as you mourn and regain your strength to decide next steps.jill's infertility documenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08289851786334836156noreply@blogger.com